john3859
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Wysłany: Pią 8:36, 11 Mar 2011 Temat postu: I startle easily |
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It's strange [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], to be highly sensitive in a world that's all about competing and getting in people's face to get ahead... and I often feel like the situation is complexified by being male, and highly sensitive. After all, guys "aren't supposed to be that way." Or [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], if they are yilai:
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http://www.rosj.fora.pl/simson,1/lessons-on-pain,50310.html#50732, they quickly get labeled as being "sensitive New Age nerds" or "a bit light in the loafers."Frankly, I am quite at peace with being who I am. It has become easier since I understood and accepted that I am NOT "for everyone," and that the majority of the world will see me as "a bit odd." I learned about the HSP trait more than a decade ago, and have spent the ensuing years not only learning, but finding and connecting with other HSPs in the world. After all, nobody "gets" what it's like to be sensitive, like another sensitive.Whereas I am also affected by emotional sensitivities, the most severe of my sensitivities are physical: harsh lights hurt my eyes, loud sounds are awful [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I startle easily, I have chemical sensitivities, I only wear natural fabrics and have to cut all labels out of my clothes. I am also an empath, "feeling" everyone's moods around me... almost like they are "psychic voices" inside my head. And that's what makes crowds exhausting... because I actually DO like people, even though I choose to spend a lot of time by myself.
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